Mortal Problems, Divine Solutions

In 1 Corinthians 10:13 Paul wrote:
There hath no temptation taken you but such as is common to man: but God is faithful, who will not suffer you to be tempted above that ye are able; but will with the temptation also make a way to escape, that ye may be able to bear it.

I had always interpreted “such as is common to man” as meaning “there’s nothing special about the addictions and vices you give in to, people have been struggling with these same things for ages.” But that’s not quite what Paul meant. Looking at the interlinear bible, the entire phrase is translated from just one word in the original Greek: ἀνθρώπινος (anthrōpinos). Anthrōpinos is defined as:

  • Belonging to human beings, especially as contrasted with God

  • Human, as contrasted with the divine

Paul is teaching that our temptations are of the terrestrial plane, of the common world, belonging to a fallen humanity. And then, in his very next statement, Paul invokes a God who will “make a way to escape” from these temptations.

What Paul is doing in this verse is making a contrast between the source of our temptations and the source of our deliverance.

Our temptations are from common mortality, whereas the deliverance is from the divine! And if we have the power of Almighty God on one side, and the power of mere mortality on the other, then obviously God will always win that battle and our salvation is guaranteed!

But…that’s only if we really do have the power of God on our side.

For many years I didn’t. I decided to face my “common to man” lust with nothing more than my “common to man” strength. I thought that since my strength was sufficient to overcome my nervous tics and annoying social habits, that it would be able to overcome my addictions also. But while I might have had the power to deal with these more minor afflictions, I learned that I was far out of my depth when it came to lust. I learned this by losing every battle to my addiction, over and over, constantly betraying the trust of my wife and child until I could hardly look them in the face.

Step One of the Twelve Steps is to admit that we are powerless over our addiction. It took me twenty years of continuous defeat, but finally I was willing to accept that bitter fact. It was a painful step, but it led me to Step Two: I came to believe that a Power greater than myself could restore me to sanity.

As Paul had taught, even though the addiction was stronger than me it still only possessed a mortal power, and it dissipated as soon as it was struck by the light of the divine. As I made confession to my wife and my spiritual leaders, worked with a therapist, and joined a recovery group, I felt a sudden reprieve from my torment. I was able to stop all forms of acting out and found myself confident that this time I was truly going to make it. I saw that “with the temptation” there really was “a way to escape.”

A mortal temptation. A divine escape. My rescue from the powers of the world!


What's next?

  • Examine your recovery for ways that you are still trying to fight your temptations with your mortal power (white-knuckling).

  • Reflect on times where instead it was God fighting the battles for you (or for someone you know). How did divine intervention provide a solution that wouldn’t have been possible in any other way?

  • What do you need to do to place your life back into His power? Are you holding onto something that is keeping His strength from surrounding you? Can you let it go now and rest in Him? Do you need additional help and perspective from a professional therapist?

  • Take action, no matter how small today.


By Abe, Guest Writer

Judgement Free Zone

At my gym on the walls in tall vinyl letters are the words “Judgement Free Zone.”

I often feel like I should get to the gym more often. When I do get there, I read the message and think to myself “I’m here, that’s a good thing.”

True also in recovery. I’ve been in a number of different programs. Some have transactional measurements of success. Days sober, which step I am working on, how many people I’ve reached out to that week.

Others accept me as I am and where I am. The focus is on feeling God’s love. Feeling whole. Feeling accepted.

It is an interesting line to cross. Where is honesty, vulnerability, and following through vs enabling, dismissing, and dishonesty?

But that is very A vs. B thinking. It is limiting and doesn’t take into account a third option.

Option C is love.

Christ ALWAYS takes us where we are RIGHT NOW. That doesn’t mean there aren’t consequences. But it does mean there is ALWAYS love and acceptance.

And the love and acceptance doesn’t have to be earned. It just is. From the God with the “I AM” title, His Love is simple.

And He is full of Grace and Truth.

I’ve made it a mission the past few years to surround myself with people, places and things which accept me where I am today - but also encourage me to keep moving forward. I’ve found a lot more peace in acceptance and love and I am propelled forward to want to do more, give more, love more, and be more accepting and full of grace.

Whenever I feel out of sorts, I do an analysis. Am I in a judgment free zone? If not, what is my part? Am I allowing shame to define who I am? What can I do to change things? And then I take action.

What’s Next?


  • Examine where you are and what you can change.

  • Where are you feeling judgmental? Pray for grace. Pray to see the other person as God sees them. Pray for them each day. Your prayer may initially be “God, I don’t like this person, but I know You love me and You love everyone. Today I surrender my lack of love towards them.” Eventually your heart will change. For me, one surrender took a really long time. But it came.

  • Examine how you can provide a more loving and accepting relationship with others.


God loves you.

By Pete, Writing Team

Rebound!

I like to play around with metaphors for my recovery journey. Sometimes it feels like a full-blown war, complete with losses, wounds and victories. But a party metaphor is solid too: In recovery, I'm having a great time with God, family, and my brotherhood - my squad! That is, until slip-ups happen. Those party crashers can bring despair and heavy consequences so I've got a playbook for dealing with them. It's not a silver bullet, but it packs a punch. It's my Sobriety Plan's bud - my Rebound Plan.

Good News
This plan includes good news and good advice and the good news stays front and center because discouragement is a slip-up’s partner in crime. So there I am after a slip-up, feeling like I've wandered down the block from my recovery bash. I’m out on the street. But I can hear the party still alive and kickin’ and I’m not banned - in fact I'm still on the VIP list! This stumble just adds an epic twist to my saga.

And even when the stumbles pile up and the consequences weigh me down, it's all good. Why? Because I'm not in charge here. That's my BFF (best father forever) - God, and guess what? He's out here on the street hanging right by my side, ready to head back together. And He's not solo: my squad is here for me as well. I’m like a son who’s taken a tumble while learning to toddle; Dad isn’t frowning, not now, not ever. I’m still worthy of His unconditional love, and with Him, I am enough.

Hope
The good advice is next up. First off, it's time for a heart-to-heart with the Big Guy: "God, I surrender all of this to You. Guide me back." And there's this spark of curiosity: how's He gonna work His magic? Now, I square my shoulders, lock eyes with my setback and my other storms, and declare, “I'm not who you say I am - I'm Ty! And my God is bigger than you all.”

Grace
Following that, I activate a personal boundary: no beating myself up. Shame isn’t on the guest list. Instead, I mentally step out of the situation and see it with compassion. Grace becomes my ticket back. I dive into inspiring things like praise music and 'The Inheritance' and throw my arms around my squad.

Light
Only darkness can kill the party so now I tackle the tough task of spilling the beans to those who matter. The lie stings worse than the stumble so I get right to this - it’s time to let the light in. Fear and haze often dominate here so If I need a pro's advice, I’m prepared to get it. I've got my empathy switch on high for the pain I've caused, and I'm all in to assist. And now my chains are loose if not gone and I'm pumped for the rest of my plan!

Growth
After that, I'm in full-on reflection mode: I ponder my slip-up and make notes. Then, I give myself a thumbs-up for growth.

Heart
Last but not least, I embrace the things that set my heart on fire – adventure, nature, music, or all of the above. Remember those epic movie comebacks? This is mine! I'm not just rebounding; I'm back to my recovery party with my BFF!


What's next?

  • Have some fun creating your own personal rebound plan if you don’t have one.

  • Party with a squad that includes the good-father-God. He's the life of the party!

  • For a turbo boost, extend a helping hand to one of your squad mates.

  • Keep pros on speed dial for those times your rebound plan doesn’t quite get you back to your recovery party.


By Ty, Writing Team